Those who read my previous post know that I was dating two people at once, the French and English. Even when at one point I had fun hanging out with them, there came a point where it was too. The truth of the matter is that I'm not unhappy. At heart I am a sensitive person and the French did not deserve what I was doing. As mentioned before also, in both games would only be the same.
end at someone is never easy, but even worse when there is nothing to stop. I had not been long out with French, it seemed ridiculous to half sit and say "I do not want to follow." Moreover, the gentleman had been so good it deserved to be told in his face, "Chacaíto."
On Wednesday, the French called me and asked me out. We agreed to go to lunch. I went with a single purpose, to end the "ma cherie." When we were way to the restaurant, the French made another of his comments like "when we live together." There had not come to the restaurant and I was desperate to say "ENOUGH!" I could not control my expression of total hatred. He realizes that something is wrong. "Well, I'm not saying right now, but still have a future, right?". Do not! What fucking intense! I tried to change the subject, but no answer was more paranoid, "Do not think of us? Is everything okay? "Ah pod, I dropped the fruit bowl, I thought. I tell you to stop intensity, which enjoy the moment, not thinking much at all. I should have ended at that moment, but the truth is that I was straw completed in the bus.
When we reached the place, we sat and stared at me intently. It was not the first time he did, stay silent and look at me intensely as if I were the woman of his dreams. I returned a kind look, "you lost something?" I started the live show ardi vs madness to change a bit the tone of the situation. I told her about my Monday without hot water and when I finished he laughed, sighed and was silent. Really man? Will you remain silent? I tried again to avoid the awkward silence and asked, "And you? What was your week? ". I responded with this gem, "I did was miss." There is no point! But this is the last straw. Where was the French first date? Who was this asshole? What kind of response so corny and little thought is that? Deep breath and I repeated the phrase like a mantra: "just wait to finish the main course."
While entering, I realize that some times the human tendency to discuss things with his mouth open. It was a bummer astronomical. If in themselves and their cloying kitsch was at that time was already disgusted with their lack of manners. I could not wait until the main course, I burst at the end of the entry.
A: French you tell me, tell me something funny.
F: Eh I do not know, I can not think of anything.
A: Why is time not tell me anything?
F: is that you intimidate me. (STRIKE 1, Coward)
A: Would I intimidated? Why?
F: I do not know. (STRIKE 2, Stupid).
A: But the first day do not intimidating. Definitely a lot has changed since then.
F: Something has changed within you? (STRIKE 3, Vivid)
A: Yes, precisely why we are here.
someone When you finish, you have to shut all doors. You can not leave any hope, you have to understand that or that hell freezes over you come back with him. So, I did not apply the "not you, it's me." Apply to the problem is that you are too serious too fast. There is startled and says, "Were the thirteen missed it?". Obviously they were the thirteen missed asshole. Without me saying anything, began to apologize saying I was drunk and was worried.
A: French friend, do not you have you wondered why I did not you attended these thirteen times?
F: I thought you were in the bathroom, which I had lost the phone, anything.
A: Neither was sick in the bathroom, and I lost my phone. Once I saw that you left me 6 missed calls, do not want to talk. I rejected the call 7 times.
The Frenchman looked down and said, "I can change." What kind of person change for someone else? It makes no sense, I threw the other question, "do not you prefer someone who loves you for who you are?" Even when he realized then that I was right, he deserves better than me, began to tell me he more time, we could have some fun together, which I liked. Honestly, I gave the French straw. I'm not so special. I wanted to say, "you deserve better than this," but if you said this, he would listen "if you want to shape me, still." That's why you have to close all doors. It is the only way to ensure that the person is not glued to truly get rid of someone.
Most times, when someone ends a relationship, it's with hot washcloths. All the phrases "if we had known before," "not you, it's me" make the other person believe there is still hope. As you say these phrases cliché, the other person understands "we have to wait for the right time," one day he will change and I will want to let me wait. " But the truth of the matter is that nothing will change, things are as they are, period. Before planting a seed of doubt into French, I told the truth, "French, at first I liked. But from the missed calls and your comments and I do not like most. Here there is hope. "
After paying the bill, the French left with his head between his shoulders. Just as I felt sorry for a nano second and left there feeling freer than ever, without any remorse. I only hope that Mr Kharma not shit to me again the next.
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